THE BEAR IS TRYING TO HURT
MY DADDY
Now, that old log house we
lived in faced due west and the road in front of us ran north and south. The
roads, in that part of the country, turned about every quarter mile as the forty
acres farms unfolded. One couldn’t just go like the crow flies. Them ol’
dirt roads just kind of flowed along the fencerows so as not to use up too much
farmland right in the middle of a feller’s property. If I came out the front
of the house and made a left, I’d be going due south, if I turned right, I’d
be going north. We sat right in the middle of that quarter mile strip on a
twenty-acre plot.
Down at the south end of the road, it doubled back west for another quarter
mile. Right there, at the bend, was a little one-room store, where Herbert and
Thelma Webster sold a few things. There was a lane that branched off and led
back east to a family by the name of Daily. Old Grandma Daily was the oldest
woman in the neighborhood at that time. She’d had a stroke sometime earlier
on, and had lost her ability to speak. Without the benefit of a speech
therapist, her talk was almost unintelligible. She was also deaf, and would
fairly holler out the little that she could say. We’d often see her up at
Webster’s store, and she’d want to hug and kiss me. It would scare the
living daylights out of me. I wasn’t accustomed to anything that wasn’t
healthy and whole. I’d hang back and try to hide from her.
My Daddy would sometimes insist that I approach her, and at least allow her to
talk to me, as he didn’t want to offend her. I’d been given the idea that my
Granddaddy Messer and that Daily bunch had been hooked up in some kind of way. I
didn’t know exactly how, but the indication was, it was something on the wrong
side of the law. No one would talk about it to this day. I’ve no idea what
that might’ve been. On one occasion, we had walked up to the Daily’s house
and the old lady was out tending to her garden. I remember, I was impressed by
its size. She grew a number of different kinds of gourds mixed in with all the
vegetables. My Daddy said she dried them, cut them in half, and used them for
dippers in the water bucket. He also told me Old Mrs. Daily was a Cherokee, just
like my Grandma Lena and knew a lot of stuff white folks didn’t. I didn’t
care. She scared me, and I was anxious to get away from there.
Now, everybody called her husband Ol’ Man Charley. He was old alright, and
just about as profane as my Granddaddy Poe. They had five boys and three girls
living in those parts. According to reports, Ol’ Man Charley would never let
the youngest daughter leave home. The General would get a funny look on her face
when they talked about that. I got the idea something was not quite right with
them folks. She said the old man had never been saved or accepted Jesus. He
wouldn’t even go to church when the good sisters made a special trip over to
his house just to invite him. She, being in the Army of the Lord, and always
looking for new recruits, took a dim view of that. She seemed pretty sure he was
in for a bad time with the Lord later on.
Those ol’ boys of theirs were scattered around, here and there, up old roads,
and down lanes, and all around. They did a lot of hunting and logging out of
timber. They were a rough and ready bunch and were always a fighting amongst
themselves when there was no one else to fight with. One of them carried a big
ol’ red can of Prince Albert smoking tobacco in his back pocket. The bottom of
the metal can had worn a hole in his old faded overalls and you could see it
when he moved around. These fellers weren’t to be trifled with. It had been
reported even the local law didn’t go around any of Ol' Charley’s boys. You
can see a young lad of six, going on seven, trying to sort all that out.
My Daddy was a peaceful man, and he’d rather tell funny stories than have
trouble with a feller. He was Irish, however, and had that old persecuted
Cherokee in him. He weighed about 140 pounds in those days and claimed to be
about 5 feet and 10 inches tall. I really think that must have been with them
high-top shoes on that he plowed in while working in the field. Well, anyway,
Arkansas men are very territorial, proud, and don’t take lightly to being
insulted, or to being made look bad in front of their neighbors. After all, what
else has a man got besides his pride? My Daddy wasn’t a man of fear about
physical things. His family not being cared for, protected, and fed, was what he
feared.
Now, up on the other end of the road going north lived Old Man Charley’s
oldest son and everybody called him The Bear. That was because he was so big and
burly looking. He had a long black beard and a raspy voice he’d got from
smoking and chewing tobacco. I can remember, as I sit here, exactly how he
smelled. He was one of them fellers that never went to school to study anything,
but he was a natural fixer. The Bear could repair just about anything, I reckon.
Put you in an ax handle, sharpen a plow, work on wagon wheels, just an all round
fixer-upper. He also did a little fishing and always had a few catfish to sell.
My Daddy liked to eat fish when it rained. He’d buy up a big ol’ mess, and
the General would make cornbread and hot black coffee and strain off the
grounds, or at least most of them. She’d clean green onions, if it was
summertime, or cut up some big white ones in the off season. Provided we had
potatoes, she’d fry them up too. At those times My Daddy would open the door,
take off his shirt, sit there at the table and look out at the rain. “Folks
don’t need a lot of fixings when they’ve got good fish,” he’d say.
One rainy day in the spring, after Jeaner Jackson was born, My Daddy was coming
around that north corner riding Ol’ Gray, she was one of the white mares you
could ride. He decided, by golly, he'd just stop and buy some fish from the Ol’
Bear. Well, there were several men folk gathered around getting the Ol’ Bear
to do some of their fixing stuff. The Ol’ Bear must’ve not been feeling too
good that day. My Daddy came in a singing a very funny song about the Blackjack
David. The Ol’ Bear just reached over to my 140 pound, 5 feet 10 inch daddy,
grabbed him by the shirt-collar, and shook him real good. Told My Daddy to get
off his place and never come back.
My Daddy being shocked, and on the Ol’ Bear’s property, just left, feeling
like an old cur dog with his tail tucked between his legs. He got to, what My
Daddy called, a studying on it, and he could see that he had been stripped plumb
clean of his rightful place as a man. Them fellers, that had been there, would
be telling that story all over the county.
What happened next is still with me today. My Daddy, when he got mad, had this
red thing on the side of his nose that would stand up. If you started to see
that, you needed to tread lightly. When he got home, I watched him put Ol’
Gray away. Not much to that, just took off the bridle. He never owned a saddle.
Then he came into the house. I’d already learned to be careful with him when I
saw that red thing on his nose. There it was, and it was redder than I’d ever
seen it. I did a quick check to see if he was going to be looking for The
Protector or me. He paid us no mind, and went on into the kitchen. He started
whispering to the General and she got real excited. I wasn’t able to figure
out what it was as she ran me outside.
Along about 5:00 P.M. in the evening, it started to get dark and the rain had
turned into a slow drizzle. Suddenly, I heard the General start to cry. Now, she
was prone to giving orders, and not carrying on like that. When I heard her, I
came running from the barn where I’d been playing with Ol’ Tom. Then I saw
this old ugly wagon, being pulled by two ol” bony black horses, coming past
our house. The Ol’ Bear was a driving and two of his boys were sitting on the
floor in the back. My Daddy went out and stopped them and told Ol’ Bear to get
hisself down out of there as he was gonna give him a good whooping.
The General had followed My Daddy out to the road and was doing her best to get
the Lord’s attention. She was a crying and talking about the Blood of Jesus
cleansing, and forgiving us of our sins and a whole bunch of stuff, I had never
heard tell of before. The Ol’ Bear said, “Fine, just come on down the road a
ways.” He didn’t want to be on, or near, our property. He drove his wagon a
few yards up the road and stopped. My Daddy reached over and grabbed the
double-edged chopping ax and followed him. My blood turned as cold as you
please, and this funny feeling went up my back. The same one I’d get when old
Granny Daily was a talking. I knew someone was going to die that day. I started
crying and jumping up and down.
The image of that gray, cold, and drizzly day, almost dark, with The Bear
standing up holding them check lines, and My Daddy standing on the ground with
that ax, is still etched in my mind. “Get on down here on the ground and us
just settle this right now,” I heard My Daddy say in a voice I hardly
recognized. The General, she had climbed up in the wagon, and was holding on to
Ol’ Bear, and a begging him not to do it. She knew My Daddy would kill him for
sure. Ol’ Bear had been growling pretty loud up to that point. With a General
of the Lord in the wagon calling on the Holy Ghost and a very mad, half-breed
Cherokee, Irishman on the ground, a funny thing happened. Suddenly, the Spirit
of the Lord must have moved on Ol’ Bear, because he began to see the error of
his ways. He commenced to declare how he didn’t know what had come over him
that morning. The General had her eyes closed and her arms in the air. She was
making a strange sound, crying out to the Lord. My fears began to diminish as My
Daddy relaxed the ax and started to regain his dignity.
Two things happened that day the way I see it. One, the General kept My Daddy
from killing Ol’ Bear. Second, was that sometimes a man has got to stand up
for himself, even if it’s to a big Ol’ Mean Bear.